I’m into week four of working now, so I’ve had three weeks of ‘winging it’ trying to achieve the elusive ‘balanced life’ that we all strive to attain. Husband still works away two weeks on, then two weeks off, so it’s really the two on when it’s a challenge, as I need to make it all happen while still being the main care giver to our two children. I have no idea when the next opportunity will present itself for my necessary runs. Necessary in the fact for not only physical but also mental health.
Saturday mornings are proving popular as I have a definite one hour’s grace when the kids have piano lessons. It means I can’t sit in on the lessons, which has repercussions of me not knowing what they should be practising all week, but I figure this a small price to pay to have a mum that’s much more (mentally) balanced. And lets be honest it means I can still eat half a block of Cadbury chocolate at my discretion! Sneaking in a quick 30 minute run on a Thursday morning has also worked, as the kids have tennis lessons before school, so I can drop them off at 7.45 am, then take off at flying pace to cover as much distance as possible in 30 minutes. Unfortunately this pace lasts all of two blocks, then I feel like Cliff Young, gumboots and all!
Another tactic to schedule a run, when Husband is away, is simple bribery. Getting the kids on their bikes to ride with me only works for a very limited number of kilometres but it’s a run nonetheless, so to make it happen there is an ice cream incentive at the end. Oh well, it’s all for a greater cause!
I’m actually really enjoying the early rise runs when the husband is home. Watching the sunrise over the city is stunning, as I run along the river’s edge, and so far the morning temperatures have been kind to me. It’s also a bit of a novelty starting out in the dark, as the common footpath becomes an obstacle course, and I’m feeling like a real ‘pro runner’ out at that time of the morning with so many other runners and cyclists – this is the serious time of the day!
I’m definitely making up the kilometres when Husband is home though, last week I ran 48km, but it sounds better when I state the 7 day Strava week of Monday to Sunday, as I totalled 61.5km. I finished the week with a half marathon, albeit in two parts, (as I needed to pick up my daughter from a birthday party in the park). After dropping her off at the party I ran 16 km, returning to the party, walked her home, then continued on for another 5.1km. This was actually quite difficult, my mind wanted me to go much faster than my body allowed. I was so relieved to finish!
I’m a very routine driven person, so I find it’s the not knowing when I can run next a real challenge, I’m managing so far, but I’m sure there’ll be many hiccups as time goes by. My running is still feeling easy, well easy enough for running, it’s never totally easy, that would be a lie! But as long as I’m still enjoying it, that’s the main thing because as soon as it becomes a chore, it’s over. As far as achieving a more ‘balanced life’, I think I’m on the way, being at work is definitely helping in picking up the deficit in other areas, so all I can say is, ‘so far so good’, and ‘make the most of an opportunity’!